Why do we want anything that we want? Because we believe it will bring us the feeling of happiness, right? So if it’s that feeling your’re after, why not give yourself that gift now? Why wait? When you are in a bummed out place, you know, feeling sad, focusing on the negative (of course we all go there once in a while…and some of us visit there way too long) that negative energy just attracts more negative energy. The negative thoughts just attract more negative thoughts. So if you are going through a hard time, here’s what I used to do….give yourself a time limit. You want to feel sad?? Fine…give yourself 10 min , or maybe an hour, or a day, maybe even a week. But when that time is up, your visit to that place is DONE my friend! Why? Because here’s the deal. It’s not “I’ll be happy when I get it, or the time comes” It’s actually “I’ll be happy NOW, FIRST, BEFORE I get it or when the time comes!” Because it’s in that state of being that draws the good to you. Happy attracts happy! And I don’t mean fooling yourself in your mind with just words…that doesn’t count. I mean REALLY feeling it and believing it from your core…THAT’s what I’m talkin’ about! And even if it doesn’t come right away according to your timeline…guess what? At least you’ve given yourself the gift of feeling happy while your waiting and are not wasting another day not expressing all that good in you!
Getting what you want or where you want to be actually is just a moment in time. But all the days leading up to that day is your life. And all those days after that day that you finally arrive and get what you want is the rest of your life. You deserve as many happy days as possible! Not a few just here and there. And even after you achieved what you want, you are going to want something new or more. That never ends, but that’s okay…that’s life force in you that wants to keep creating! That’s living! That’s what makes you alive! So I encourage you to live as many happy days as possible! Seek out the good! Hey, look, if you’re reading this you’re still alive….that means you ain’t done yet! And that’s something to be happy about! That’s a great starting point!!!
Next letter to you… you are already whole:)
We’re all in this together:)
With crazy love and gratitude!
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